So I chose to allow myself a small amount of spontaneity and went along to the workshop that I would have least expected to find myself in.
So headed upstairs to a session called.
Leadership goes Tango: Impro(ve) your leadership-skills with Tango Argentino
Read the session description here
I found my dance ability at an improv class many years ago when Matt Elwell taught me to 'Get All Up In It' or what we call the GAUII approach.
However I have found that dance where I'm expected to remember steps or even a pattern is not for me.
So attending a session on Tango was a stretch.
It was a well put together 75 minutes and I'm offering to share with you dear reader my lessons from it.
It can be just as hard following a leader as it can be leading a follower.
It's easier to follow blindly (literally). But you must trust your leader to do this.
There are many ways that a leader can work with a follower who resists being led. Sometimes it's best to stop and restart. Sometimes it's best to use the Aikido approach and let the resistance lead fr a moment then overtake that to take leadership again. And sometimes there will be something else to try.
The final exercise we did had a leader, with a blindfolded follower by their side and a resisting (sometimes) follower in front of them.
What I learned from that was how hard it is to lead a blind follower when you change the way you have done it before AND have something else to concentrate on as well.
I'll muse on the lessons from that and how they apply to learning and get back to you all.
In the mean time I feel like a steak!.